when the wrong guy asks you out

I know I’m always talking shit about men not wanting to date. They usually want to fuck beforehand. And that’s not a cool approach for me. But then there are also men who come to understand that sex comes after fun. So they ask you out, knowing that’s what you want. But then it’s so obvious that their equation is date = sex. It’s just like… no.

When the wrong guy asks you out, it just feels like a pit in your stomach. And maybe that’s a good excuse to give him to get out of going. You’re suddenly ill.

A lot of guys take my attention as flirtatious. Really I’m just being myself. I’m not necessarily trying to fuck you. So guys feign interest in me here and there. It’s mostly an empty abyss of interest–seems like it would be cool to deal with me if it was convenient. More than one guy has told me that he’d like just one time… lol… some friends…

Whether there’s good reason you can’t date the person or if they’re just not doing the right shit for you, it’s just disappointing. Like this is just not it. The butterflies I’m feeling are about how I’m going to let you down instead of wondering what to wear. Will I tell you no or just start ignoring you… hmm…

And when the wrong guy asks you out, they usually know they’re the wrong guy. A lot of men will preface their request with some sort of check to see if you’re interested. These may range from sexting attempts to flat out questions like so… if I asked you out on a date, would you go?

Like you’re not even confident enough to ask me out but you think you can handle fucking with me?

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